'Til Death Do Us Part
..............
By Donna Verba
Bobbie wild born native
Arkansas Sherabie wildborn
& mother raised .

So you want to be
owned by a bobcat, I myself have been owned by four. All are
different, each personality varies, some gentle some more
aggressive. Are you really ready for what lies ahead? This is a
life changing experience for you and all members of your family.
Can you sacrifice the next 20 years of your life for the sake and
well being of this animal? Do you really have what it takes to be
owned by a bobcat? Once they enter your life they will depend on
you for everything they need to stay alive and healthy. Once they
have bonded with you and your family, like a child you cannot just
give them away. They do not take to change well, and if you cannot
care for them until they pass, then please do not get one.
Get
the facts before the cat
There are so many things to learn
before one of these magnificent creatures come into your life.
First you must know, if it is legal in your state to own one.
State and county regulations are posted on the FCF (Feline
Conservation Federation) website, at www.thefcf.com I live in
Arkansas, and here it is not illegal to own a wild born native
bobcat. I have had 3 born in the wild bobcats, and one mother
raised. The mother raised was around 10 weeks old when we found
her abandoned in our driveway. Some of the things you will need to
know, how do they behave, what do they eat, common illnesses,
building a cage, reinforcing your home, safe windows and safe
entrance doors to your home. A cage should be a pleasurable
environment for the cat, with platforms, ramps, and toys not a
prison. All these things and more must be considered before you
get a bobcat kitten. For there is far more to them than just being
sweet adorable
little
kittens. Below is Sherabie, born in the wild and mother raised.
These photos were taken shortly after we found her abandoned in
our driveway. She was the beginning, and it has not ended.

Are you ready to have you home marked as
their territory, and to buy a lot of odor killer? Your home
becomes their territory and play ground, remove anything sacred to
you and put it away for 20 years, or until you decide this sweet
little thing needs to be in her enclosure, and come in the house
for brief supervised visits. But once you become really attached
to them you no longer care what they destroy, kind of like your
human kids, because you love them. The difference here is, you can
put the cat in a cage, authorities get upset if you lock your
children in a cage, although there have been times I have been
tempted.
My 2 bobcats have full run of the house. What
used to be the main entrance to my home is now, the main entrance
to the cage. The door to the house remains open at all times, they
are free to come and go at will. The cage is roughly 26 X 24 feet
in size, we have added another section to this. There is a 6 foot
gated walkway between the 2 cages and the add-on is roughly 14 X
24 feet. When it is done the 2 cages will be connected and a
walkway overhead will be the pathway for the cats between cages.
Cages can be constructed with out a lot of major expense.
My bobs do as they want, I am one of the lucky ones
though. Neither of my cats has ever sprayed anything in the house,
and they don't spray or destroy the plants in the cage. They sleep
with me when they want and even at night the door to the cage is
open to the house, giving them full run of the house when I am
sleeping. The worst that has happened, is I have been woke up from
a sound sleep, getting my face washed by a bobcat, and their
tongue is like sandpaper, their version of a face peel. Slobbering
in your ear and purring so loud you can't sleep. Oh Yeah, then
there is play time at 5am, and you and your bed are the
playground. I feel lucky though, nothing has been broken in my
home from their play, they stay off the furniture, and cabinets.
My female does go on top of the refrigerator, and they do sleep on
my bed. The female has one obsession, she feels the brass
butterflies I have hanging on my walls should be set free, and she
is the one to free them. This obsession has resulted in the
removal of the butterflies by the bobcats and me. When they play
they play hard. The sound of rolling thunder is what to expect in
your home, not the pitter-patter of tiny paws. I feel having the
cage attached directly to the house, has made a difference in how
they behave indoors. Most of the hard play has been on the ramps
and platforms in the cage, very little goes on in the house, other
than they chase each other from room to room.

Water, water,
everywhere My female loves water, my
male on the other hand likes water, but in the form of rain. They
both love playing on the ramps in the rain, and running through
the puddles in the cage. Beware though, as I said they like water,
remember your bathroom toilet contains water, need I say more? You
will learn to keep the lid closed, or keep a mop handy. At times I
have left a few inches of water in the bath tub, she enjoys it
very much, but it does get a bit messy. Doing dishes can be a
challenge when she is in the house, it's a battle over who gets
the running water, you or her. She won't hesitate to get right in
there and bat the water everywhere. The help you get when mopping
floors is also much appreciated, she has learned though, that
floors are slippery when wet. Never run across a wet floor.
The bobs have bonded and adjusted well to my husband and
I, but when a stranger comes around they get very nervous. I can
tell by the way they run the ramp in their cage if someone has
pulled into my yard. They head for their loft and stay down trying
to remain motionless, as not to be seen by this threat to them.
Something strange has invaded their territory, and they become
uneasy until this stranger leaves. This is fear on their part not
aggression, their defense is to run, hide, and remain motionless,
as not to be seen. Once the threat has gone they come back down
and check out every inch of the house, sniffing and looking for
what was there. Their behavior is easy for me to understand, for
they have not been exposed to a lot of people and activity, the
female being wild born still has very strong wild instinct. My
male on the other hand, is a rescue, severely mistreated for the
early part of his life. It has taken me over 2 years to win his
trust, he will take food from my hand, but I still cannot really pet him. He was
rescued from someone who thought owning a bobcat would be COOL,
they got rid of him, they are fine, only the animal suffered. But
since he arrived here he has come a long way, he is doing great
now considering what had been done to him.

"You are what you eat"
Proper nutrition
plays a major role in the all around health of your bobcat. They
are not like domestics, their nutritional needs are different. My
bobcats are feed whole chickens, feathers and all, chicken leg
quarters, or chicken necks, chicken gizzards and hearts. They also
eat beef, fresh road kill of squirrel or rabbit and I occasionally
mix in a hard boiled egg. They also receive a daily supplement of
vitamins and minerals, made especially for exotic felines. During
the hot summer months, the cats eat less, but will make up for it
once the weather starts to cool down and they start putting on the
winter coats and fat.
Above Bobbie
proudly carries her chicken showing me for hours what she has. She
carried this for most of the day, from cage to cage, bringing it
to me to show it off. Don't worry this chicken was already dead
before Bobbie got it, she just thinks she did
it.
"A Good
Veterinarian is a must"
If you decide to go forth and venture into the world of
exotic feline, make sure you have a veterinarian close who has
knowledge of exotics. This is important, for the wrong dose, or
medicine can be lethal to exotics. Some have died during a simple
declaw because the sedative was the wrong kind or dose. A simple
illness can turn fatal, if given the wrong medications. Please, do
not have their canines removed, and if at all possible let them
have their claws. If you must have them declawed, then only have
the front claws removed. Do not leave them defenseless and unable
to eat. My rescue male has been butchered as a young baby, no
claws, no teeth, and neutered, I have to chop up his food in small
pieces so he can eat. He cannot enjoy a whole chicken, feathers
and all, he can not eat it without his canines. Which is a shame
because that is nature's perfect food for them, all the nutrients
their bodies need are contained in that one food source.

Above Baby is in sickbay, where she
had to spend time until I knew for sure she had healed and was
eating again. Baby went in for a simple surgery to be spayed,
and that was the cause of almost losing her. The vet did a great
job all went well, I stood by her side during the entire surgery
and even video taped it. read more
of her story on her page.
There are
no Exotic Vacations
Caring for these animals, is a 24 hour 7 day a week
job, there are no vacations, no breaks. You cannot just take off
for a weekend and leave them unattended. In the event the need to
leave comes up, make sure you have a knowledgeable and trustworthy
adult to care for them in you absence. This person should be a
friend who has been around the animals and knows your routine with
the feeding and general care, someone they are familiar with, not
a stranger. Bobcats as they grow older will become more cautious
around strangers, therefore for their peace of mind a familiar
face and voice will keep them calmer while you are away.
Speaking of
Regrets. . .
There are so many more things to say, but I don't
want to bore you by going on and on. If you ask me do I have any
regrets about having bobcats and taking in rescues, my answer
would be,"yes". I regret I do not have enough cages built to take
in more rescues, there are so many in need now with the lawmakers
trying to ban the rights to own them. I regret I can only afford
to build a few cages and feed a few of these beautiful creatures.
I regret not being able to stop the ignorant and irresponsible
people from buying them.
I am not sorry for trying to help
these animals stay alive and live a long and healthy life. I will
continue to care for, build cages as I can afford them and take in
rescues. But please give serious thought to your own ability to
provide and care for one of these beautiful creatures, before you
bring a bobcat into your home. They are all special and deserve a
good life, are you special enough to give it to them? I would
regret having to take another in because serious thought was not
given before the purchase. A bobcat should not be an impulse buy,
it is a 20 year commitment. Your heart may be in the right place,
but things can happen, will you be prepared to do what needs to be
done, for the sake of the animal, if something did happen?
Meet Phoebe
, a magnificent Canadian Lynx, her owner loved her
dearly.

Her owner loved and cared for her for over 5 years,
then Phoebe was in need of a home fast. I received a phone call,
asking many questions, a concerned owner wanting to know about me.
Within a few days, she was delivered to me by her owners, who
loved her enough to drive for 3 days to bring Phoebe to a new
home. A job relocation was the reason for Phoebe to be placed in a
new home. Her former owner stays in contact with me through emails
and phone calls, she loved Phoebe very much, and is still upset
and hurt about having to give her up. Phoebe also is still upset
about being moved, her whole life as she knew it has changed. So
many new things to have to adjust to, change is difficult for
these animals after they have bonded. Some may come around in
time, others never do. She was loved, not abused, time may
bring her around. But the trauma to these animals is great, so
think before you buy.
They bond
for life, can you?

Bradley and his buddy
Rufus Baby
giving kisses and slobbers
Its time to ask yourself, am I worthy of
one of these magnificent creatures? Will I be able to give them
what they need? Can I provide a stable home and environment for
them? Am I ready to take on this responsibility for upwards to 20
years? Can I provide them with a place in the sun, where they can
run, play and roll around in the green grass, breath fresh air and
be safe? Am I ready to clean up their messes when they don't use
the litter box? Can I reinforce my doors and windows to prevent an
escape, for their safety? If there is any doubt in your mind at
this time, then wait until you feel you are truly and honestly
ready.
REMEMBER THEY BOND FOR LIFE, CAN YOU
?????????
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